One-Anothering: How the Church Loves Like Christ

Gary Wetherhold   -  

The concept of “one-anothering” in the Bible is a powerful and transformative principle that helps spread the fame of God by emphasizing the importance of mutual care, support, and love within the Christian church and community. This biblical mandate encourages believers to engage in meaningful relationships characterized by selflessness, compassion, and encouragement.  The term “one-another” is mentioned over forty times in the New Testament and instructs believers how they are to relate to each other in a manner reflective of Christ’s teachings. Thirty of these references are positive, “Pray for one another”, (James 5:16) and twelve are negative, “Do not complain (grumble) against one another”,  (James 5:9). These imperatives explore the significance of biblical “one-anothering” and its implications for fostering a vibrant and authentic church and community.

Foundation in Scripture

The foundation of “one-anothering” is deeply rooted in the teachings of Jesus Christ and the writings of the apostles. In John 13:34-35, Jesus instructs his disciples, saying, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples if you love one another.” This command forms the bedrock of the biblical principle of “one-anothering,” calling believers to love each other in a way that mirrors the sacrificial and selfless love of Christ.

The apostle Paul further expounds on this idea in his letters to various early Christian communities. In Romans 12:10, he urges believers to “be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” This exhortation emphasizes the importance of placing the needs and interests of fellow believers above one’s own, creating a community marked by genuine care and mutual respect.

Practical Applications

Biblical “one-anothering” encompasses a wide range of practical applications, each contributing to the nurturing of a supportive and flourishing church and community. One key aspect is mutual encouragement, as highlighted in 1 Thessalonians 5:11 – “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact, you are doing.” Believers are called to uplift and inspire one another, providing spiritual and emotional support in times of difficulty.

Additionally, the Bible emphasizes forgiveness in “one-anothering.” Colossians 3:13 states, “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” This directive underscores the importance of cultivating an environment of grace and reconciliation within the church and community, fostering unity and healing.

Furthermore, the concept of “one-anothering” extends to acts of service and kindness. Galatians 5:13 encourages believers to “serve one another humbly in love.” This call to selfless service reflects the servant-hearted attitude of Christ and reinforces the idea that genuine love is expressed through practical actions that benefit others.

Impact on the Christian Community

The practice of biblical “one-anothering” has a profound impact on the Christian community, creating a space characterized by love, unity, and mutual support. When believers actively engage in “one-anothering,” they contribute to the formation of a community that reflects the transformative power of the Gospel and spreads the fame of God. This transformation can be seen in two primary ways.

First, “one-anothering” fosters a sense of belonging. In a world marked by isolation and individualism, the Christian church and community become a refuge where individuals find acceptance, understanding, and a genuine sense of connection. This sense of belonging is vital for spiritual growth and resilience in the face of life’s challenges.

Second, “one-anothering” strengthens the witness of the Church. Jesus’ statement in John 13:35 highlights that the world will recognize disciples of Christ by their love for one another. A church practicing “one-anothering” becomes a compelling testimony to the transformative power of God’s love, attracting others to the message of the Gospel.


In conclusion, biblical “one-anothering” is a foundational principle here at Grace Fellowship that calls us to live out our faith in church and the community with servants’ hearts through acts of love, service, forgiveness, and encouragement. Rooted in the teachings of Jesus and the apostles, this concept forms the basis for fostering authentic Christian community. As believers embrace the call to “love one another as Christ loved us,” they contribute to the creation of a vibrant and transformative church and community that reflects the beauty of God’s redemptive work in the world.